When you are a larger person or have a glaring flaw, this is highlighted on a daily basis, especially if you are a woman. I agree with Weiner's point regarding Weight Watchers. She says Weight Watchers basically tells you to be your beautiful self, only if you're skinny. This is a huge self-esteem killer. Being a big girl myself, I've learned that I will always have the mentality of a fat girl. I've lost almost 30 pounds in the last year. Normally this would boost someone's self-esteem, but because of the way society has treated fat people, it will always be ingrained in my head. I will always worry about whether I am still this fat