Passionately in love even after all these years? It is possibleIt is quite easy to promise a lifelong commitment to someone. But maintaining it is almost something easier said than done. With temptations and indifference issues lurking around every corner, it's absolutely impossible to stay madly in love. This despite every good reason why you fell in love in the first place. It's a bitter truth that every relationship, old and new, must recognize. The nightmare of all this is when things get overly dry and neither of you are that excited about anything more than just seeing each other. The secret to a happy relationship is one that starts and stays passionate about each other. Managing a career and raising children can also take a toll on you. What most couples fail to consider is that they simply cannot allow passion to slip away, no matter how hectic or toxic each day becomes. Believe it or not, the key to keeping that romantic fire burning in long-term couples lies in these simple, time-tested secrets.1. Keep the lines of communication open. There is no more effective way to support the relationship than to always make time to talk to each other about everything. You might talk about what you do during the day, how you feel about a pressing national issue, or what projects you want to pursue together. If you're encouraged to talk about the simple things, there's no reason why you shouldn't talk about the complicated ones. If you are facing a problem, it is best to talk about it with someone who understands and is directly involved in the whole situation. No other person should be able to make you feel better than your significant other. The power to communicate... middle of paper... and stop criticizing your partner for flaws that weren't apparent when you were first dating. When you are more engaging and fun, your partner will be attracted to you a hundred times more.8. Choose to always be a loving partner. There will be times when you are forced to be anything but loving. You are human and you can't always give your best when it comes to falling in love with your partner. But no matter what happens, always choose to be loving and forgiving. Your partner will always remember how you make him feel. Gestures of love can go a long way and will surely be reciprocated with double the love you have given. Elizabeth Davis is a well-known and respected relationship counselor. Visit her website where she offers free, no-holds-barred advice, friendship and support to anyone experiencing difficulties in their marriage.