When should I get married? - 5 Important Questions You Should Answer Before Tying the KnotLong married couples usually have this to say to couples getting married as if to warn them of a future that is doomed; “Marriage isn't always all sunshine and roses. It's a responsibility that starts from day one." It sounds scary. But no one can deny the grain of truth contained in his every word. The question, therefore, is not how to make it all rosy. It is rather more important to answer the “5 Ws” questions of who, what, when, where and why when deciding whether it is indeed time to finally say that once-in-a-lifetime “yes” in life.1. Who is responsible for the success of the marriage: wife or husband? The fact is that marriage is for two people who have promised to be one in sickness and in health, for poorer or for richer, until death do them part. This is not just acted for the sake of it. Nor is it acted to seem a little more like individuals madly in love. It is actually recited to remind the couple of the life they are entering. As soon as couples get engaged, plan their wedding and finally exchange wedding vows, they already begin to live a life as a couple. This means that every decision is not just up to the man or the woman. Choosing the reason for the wedding, deciding on the venue and choosing what food to serve to the guests are all part of the journey of a lifetime together and should not end after the honeymoon. What were once trivial issues related to food choices turn into more serious marital issues. concerns including parenting, budgeting and declining intimacy. Truth be told, the only way to deal with them is to be effective accomplices to the crime. In very simple words, success or... middle of the paper... or a failed marriage: communication problems or less communication, declining levels of intimacy, growing distrust, etc. It is very important to keep communication open, maintain friendship in marriage and cultivate mutual intimacy even after 30 years. These three things hold the magic that makes most marriages successful.5. Why would I ever want to get married? Let's face it. Single bliss is beautiful. But being married is awesome! Marching down the aisle is just one thing. But spending a lifetime with a person who knows you more than you know yourself (sometimes) is the real thing. Imagine coming home to a loving husband after a stressful day at work. Still not convinced? Imagine having someone to celebrate all your birthdays with, finish that seafood pasta your belly couldn't handle anymore. There will be one less lonely girl in the world.