It's your day, so plan and customize your wedding reception as you wish. Some brides feel compelled to please their guests. Bottom line: If you plan and customize your wedding activities and events, your guests will want to stay all night. Consider, for example, the buffet or sit-down dinner served at most weddings. Some brides have chosen to circulate servers with heavy hors d'oeuvres and drinks or set up multiple refreshment tables around the room. Usually, one of the most popular attractions at these refreshment tables is the giant chocolate fountain, with fruit and pretzels