Although I will never be able to look into my mother's brown eyes, hear her laugh again, or feel her loving touch that only a mother can have, I have transformed for the Better . So in conclusion, the death of a loved one can be good or bad, it all depends and is all determined by how someone views the situation. Someone can look at the negatives and become burdened by those negatives. On the other hand, someone can find the positive aspects even though they might be difficult to discover in that tragic situation and make the instance constructive. This is what I did, I found the positives in a terrible situation and tried to make the worst thing in my life happen and convert it into a positive. This is how I moved forward and how I transformed myself into a better man, friend, and friend