Topic > Parents: Confidant vs Enforcer - 779

In the current generation, relationships between parents and children are undoubtedly strained. It stands to reason that many artists today continue to release songs detailing their broken relationships with their families; furthermore, it is even more evident as shown on television in shows like Teen Mom and Intervention. Raising a child without excessive techniques can be beneficial to both the parents and the child as a small rebellion will most likely occur. The most crucial point to avoid this would be to alter the way parents view many teenagers today, education and friendship. Most parents of today's teenagers grew up in the '60s and '70s where good manners and "it takes a village to raise a child" were expected, the ideal still held true. "Yes ma'am, no sir" were part of good manners and staying out all day and playing with the neighborhood children was considered the perfect pastime. Of course, the current generation's definition of fun and good manners is a bit altered since Facebook and video games are time consuming. Many people still say, "Yes ma'am, no sir," because they grew up in the South, where respect is prominent in almost every family. But if you get into places like Miami and California, that idea is not the norm and is considered quite old-fashioned. Many consistently say that those born before the 1980s carry with them more values ​​and have a stronger sense of duty than those born after. There are many opposing arguments relating to this statement, but only up to a point. Some teenagers and those who follow do not have respect for themselves, for others and for their country as they should and social graces can be considered almost non-existent, which... half of the paper... ld never achieved, but this it also plays with the idea that everyone needs variety in their life and it's not fair for anyone to be exposed to only one culture, unless they consider the stereotypes seen in television exposure. Parenting is hard work, which can only be done correctly through trial and error, research, and patience. Raising a child without excessive techniques can be beneficial for both parents and children as a small rebellion will most likely occur and the relationship between parent and child will definitely become stronger. The best way to avoid this would be to change the way parents generally view teenagers, education and friendship today. Communication, experience and bonding are the best way to raise a child, during these difficult times in the world. Becoming a confidant, instead of being a constant advocate, will reap more benefits than many think.