Should be everyone's thing (in fact, adult women now make up the largest demographic of gamers. There). And why is it so bad to like things that are typically associated with women? Is someone who likes to hang out somehow less intelligent or "real" than you? How do you know I'm not also a book nerd who loves Harry Potter? So what if they aren't? You can't define someone's character by their interests or hobbies. It would be the last superficial thing to do